Annie Sprinkle

One of the things that has kept me going through another decade of disappointing people and disappointing politics are Annie Sprinkle's funny lists. Her 40 Reasons Whores Are My Heros list and her 7 types of female orgasms list shed light in a dark world. Check out at anniesprinkle.org.

Sexy Pig Talk...

Today's guy had no cam, but he sure could type. He's every bit the nasty pig he says he is because he left the second after I told him he could touch his pig-cock because that's what pig-cocks are for. Most of the time I don't mind waiting for the next guy, but when traffic is slow and it's nice out, why wait? That's part of the reason I'm on AFF and/or outpersonals, the public cam gets me the audiance I need finish myself off. Now I wish it would get me a few hot dates too! lol.

Femdom & Forced Bi

There are two subgenres of porn that point directly to guy-on-guy oral. Femdom and Cuckhold. Cucked guys pour on the degradation and humilation spice by becoming a relevant sexually by "taking it direct from the source".

The path is less direct in Femdom, but we have the strap-on "training". What is the goal of this training? The femdom is hot. The slaveboy is not. Given a free market, the femdom's time is split between many guys. While this feature of the sexual economy has traditionally been used to drive up prices, it also has the potential or at least the promise of a different kind of rationing.

The enterprising Femdom will notice the surplus labor and put it to work for her. Will the boys mind sharing the object of their affections? Isn't it the ultimate transgressive high to cross the line of one's everyday sexual idenity to please an idolized woman? The leatherman is the king of the dungeon and the Femdom is the queen.

Straight Guys Who Like Dick

Dan Savage's recent writings on straight guy cocksucking culture (let's call it SGCC!) are real oxygen in a culture where many supposedly educated, worldly, and even liberal minded people are eager to cram people into prefab cultural niches. Remember in the 1980s we thought all those guys in the basement of the pornostore were gay? Some may have identified as gay, many probably did not.

One of the defining features of SGCC is that it is fugitive. It thrives of being secret and anonymous. And to one extent, one must understand that it is a sexual ghetto. In the major cities of Europe, men can choose between gay and straight red light districts. Since men are willing to do it for free, "gloryholes" are the last remaining American red-light district.

Imagine life without ever having cruised a RLD. Never having the thrill of the first time, the first good-time, the first disappointment, and the realization that it's not always a black or white experience and American sex-negative mores where a lie. Many European working girls are independent and very happy especially once they realize you are not an asshole. Imagine being a SWAM who never made that trip to Europe, could never afford American prices, and finding that rush for the first time in the porno-booths.

In his piece on Washington State Senator Richard Curtis, Dan Savage nails down Curtis' kink for cross-dressing and taking it like a bitch. He's more sympathetic to the ex-senator than his trick that sold him out. It's all qualified appropriately, but Dan is right - most cross dressers aren't gay. I don't really "get it" myself in a "Dude, you've got a mustache!" kind of way, but I do understand how people can "be into their own heads" sometimes especially when they are trying to get off. So don't label the guy closeted gay man who needs to embrace gay culture. That's not who Richard Curtis and a lot of other guys into SGCC are.

Overdue for Showtime!

That guy on Friday night was hot! I was hoping to hear from him, but no such luck. Saturday and Sunday I was content to exercise and cook up a storm of healthy food. So I was pretty primed last night, but it was quite. Now IMlive is under a D.O.S. attack, it seems. No relief in sight!

Poor Roxanne got two happy hours in the last two days, so the girl is working hard for her money. We are both infatuated with cock, so we get along pretty well. She might be mad at me for popping in and out of her HH and making faces at her. I am trying to get her to read sex-positive things like Dan Savage and Annie Sprinkle. I would hate to see her become mercenary because she has potential as a sexual personality.

High Strung Femdom...

Roxanne, one of my femdom friends is having a rough time. It is Easter weekend and her usual crowd isn't hit her up. I offered to help her get off, but she is too worried about paying her bills and too frustrated to play with her clit for me. If you are horny and want to see her go over to IMLive.com. She'll talk you down a few pegs and get you off, and she likes cigars too. One of these days, I'm going to get her in a sling and teach the joys of fisting. She has the makings of a real leatherwoman if she will let herself. And if a hot bitch telling you to beg for cock is what you need, have her give me a call, and I'll come and join the fun.

Paid for Pumping...

Got great camshows on IMLive.com twice this week. It's feels great to get off and get paid. One of these studs wants a good assfucking. I will have to get a trash can liner "female condom" and directions to his favorite sling. I hope he doesn't mind me sucking his dick for a while before ram fucking him. J - if your reading this, you know I am local and you know I am serious.

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Cam Show Saturday Nite!

Had a visit from Joey the Perv earlier. Joey likes me to show him pictures from my old femdom porno mags and clinically instruct him on j.o.ing. It's challenging because I'm new to doing sound in my shows, but it's a load of fun.