Sunday, April 6, 2008

Cuckholds!

OK - it's official. Dan Savage said the cuckhold fetish is having it's 15 minutes (of fame). This is verified by an personal ad in my local weekly headlined, "I'm going to marry a cuckhold." A few years back I did the rounds on the web checking this out. There are a few major themes & variations on cucking. There are the "Hotwives" - wives that don't want to be monogious or "cheating wives". They want permission. If you don't give a hotwife permission or sometimes even if you do, she has the cuckhold option.

It's intriguing that cuckholding dovetails into "inter-racial". Inter-racial is a trip because it fetishizes the mythology around the psycho-sexual roots of white supremacy. To paraphrase this idea, if white guys & black guys were allowed to compete for the affection of white women, the black guys would win because of their huge schlongs alone and turn the fair ladies into hyper-sexualized sluts. Black women don't figure in because they are too shrill no one wants them (in this stereotyped mindset).

So 50 years after MLK won the case for human dignity, we are working out our kinks around BBC (big black cock). We have a "wet dream" - not a idealistic one, lol. If you doubt that white fear had psycho-sexual roots, consider so many of the signs of the white citizen's councils said, "No Race Mixing". And it's not just white folks tapping this taboo for bedroom dynamite, google "Mandingo Club" and you find the guys who fit the part cashing in to get some wet white pussy.

Things get really interesting when you add the cuckhold thing to the inter-racial thing and sprinkle in a touch of BDSM, and Mr. White graduates clean his wife's black-seeded pussy with his tongue and savoring it, to "taking it directly from the source". Yes! What started out as playing with older taboos about race and monogamy to include guys blowing guys. While these storylines are absurd, they hit almost every taboo in the book. My favorite is the "logical" conclusion when the black lover "breeds" (impregnates) his white mistress. The horrified beaten down husband consents to the racialist logic and agrees to support and raise the child ultimately confirming the racial stereotypes of black men as "bulls" and white men as "providers".

The wacked part of this is too many people think and act out these stereotypes which is pretty darn bizzare. All those open racists you see in the old civil rights films had kids and they had kids and you can see hip-hopping schucking & jiving. You have to wonder if those big into race-play had parents or grandparents who were the "bad guys" in those old civil rights films. And you have to wonder, could this time of play be a healing force or are these folks just a bunch of nut jobs acting out and leaving chaos in their wake? Probably some of both I would guess.

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